子云:"夫(fu)礼(li),坊民(min)所淫,章(zhang)民之(zhi)别,使民无(wu)嫌(xian),以(yi)为民纪者也。故男(nan)女(nv)无 媒不交,无币不相(xiang)见,恐男(nan)女之无别也。以(yi)此(ci)坊民,民犹有(you)自(zi)献其身。《诗》云(yun): '伐柯如之(zhi)何?匪斧不克;取妻如(ru)之何?匪媒不得;爻刂麻(ma)如(ru)之何?横纵其(qi)亩(mu); 取妻(qi)如之何?必告父母。'"
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