子游(you)问曰:"丧慈母如母(mu),礼与?"孔(kong)子(zi)曰:"非礼(li)也。古者,男子外(wai)有传, 内有慈(ci)母,君命(ming)所使(shi)教(jiao)子也(ye),何服之有?昔(xi)者,鲁昭公(gong)少丧其(qi)母,有(you)慈母(mu)良,及(ji) 其死(si)也,公弗(fu)忍(ren)也,欲(yu)丧之(zhi)。有司以闻,曰:'古(gu)之礼,慈母(mu)无服,今也君为之(zhi) 服(fu),是逆古(gu)之礼而乱(luan)国(guo)法也;若终行之(zhi),则(ze)有司将书(shu)之以遗后(hou)世。无(wu)乃(nai)不(bu)可乎(hu)?' 公(gong)曰:'古者天子练冠(guan)以燕居。'公弗忍也,遂练冠以丧慈母。丧慈母,自鲁昭 公(gong)始也。"
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