子云:"夫礼,坊民(min)所淫,章(zhang)民(min)之别,使民(min)无嫌,以为民纪者也(ye)。故(gu)男女无 媒(mei)不(bu)交,无币(bi)不相见(jian),恐男女之无别也(ye)。以此(ci)坊(fang)民,民犹(you)有自献其身(shen)。《诗》云: '伐柯如(ru)之何?匪斧不克;取妻如(ru)之何?匪(fei)媒不(bu)得(de);爻刂麻如之何?横纵(zong)其亩(mu); 取妻(qi)如之何?必告(gao)父母。'"
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