子云:"夫礼,坊民所(suo)淫,章(zhang)民之别,使民(min)无嫌,以(yi)为(wei)民纪者也。故男女无 媒不交,无币不相见(jian),恐(kong)男女之(zhi)无别(bie)也。以(yi)此坊(fang)民,民犹有自(zi)献(xian)其身。《诗(shi)》云(yun): '伐柯如(ru)之(zhi)何(he)?匪斧不克;取妻(qi)如之何?匪媒(mei)不(bu)得;爻(yao)刂麻如之何(he)?横纵其亩; 取妻如之何(he)?必告(gao)父(fu)母。'"
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